So you guys met on BBM, Facebook, Badooo or whichever social network. He gets your number, calls you for 1 or 2 days and then invites you over to his place. You don't even think about it a second you rush over to his house. 

What baffles me about most of you Women is that you don't even think! 

With all the news flying around on TV, Newspapers and Social Network about how men perpetrate evil and in most cases slaughter women using these social networks as a tool to lure women to their den, una still no dey fear! Chai I bow! Women have mind sha!

Back to what I was saying, now you are at his home or hotel or wherever Mr. Horny has invited you to; he knows you are a loose girl for being there with him in the first instance. 

We Men are very, very wise... We think in advance! So you guys are there, he asks you want to drink or eat ( for those that even care a bit) and as longer throat wey you be, you quickly name all the edibles available... 

You probably took some alcohol and have started feeling tipsy; so he begins " do you know you are adorable", " those lips of yours are quite red", " I don't know but I had strong feelings for you immediately I saw your picture"... 

By now, he is already close to you touching and caressing and as mugu, you sit still, nipples already standing, probably moaning self. Cuz the way wey girls take they enter gear today no be here....

The annoying thing is that he might probably not even talk too much and in a flash, you are pant down and he's on you pounding and hammering; and the truth is these kind of guys pound mercilessly lol. 

They don't make love in a sensual way they just keep hammering the thing like they are " Trying to Form Poundo From Yam in a Mortar"... In 15 - 20 minutes or maybe even more for those " KILLER GUYS", those ones na like 1 hour or so... after he has ejaculated and makes that animalistic sound, he just turns around and lays down.

The show is over, he has had the Meat Pie... Now you are there either naked or trying to wear your clothes... The TV is on and you are watching all alone... Don Papa is relaxing... In the next 5 minutes again he's up... Touches you again and you open your legs shamelessly... 

Don Papa pounds the hell out ( Round 2) lol. After he's sure that he has fully satisfied himself, he would be like " what's up with you?", let me know when you are ready to go. 

He'd probably just give you transport fare if he's considerate and if you ask him for money he would ask if you were a prostitute; after all you didn't bargain anything before coming.

Okay, chapter closes and you leave. He still keeps calling and messaging you maybe because your bedmatics skills were impressive or he doesn't have any new catch yet. One month later, you are asking " what's up with us?", " where's this relationship taking us?". Nna eh most women never seize to amaze me; in this obodo Nigeria? Relation GINI? And you think any man in his sanest mind will take you seriously? Your name na sorry!

I am telling you from a Man's point of view. When stuffs like this happen; I mean you were an easy go, he will give your number to his friend to chop too. You expect him to be serious? How? Why? Not possible! He knows that chances are you have other guys who do exactly the same thing to you. Where's the dignity?

A chic was arguing with me and she said " A man could sleep with you the same day he meets you and marries you but he can also date you and sleeps with you after one year and still not marry you". I don't know where that came from; she might be right or totally wrong but I am telling you oh Babeeee take it easy and stop sharing this pie.

Tomorrow you say men are this, men are that, men are wicked and bla, bla, bla but shebi na you carry your thing give am on a platter of Gold. You gave into him so cheaply am sorry he won't have any regards for you.

This is just my 2 cents on this issue.

If you think otherwise, kindly drop a comment in the comment box below and let's yarn.

Until next time.

P.S: I know all ladies are not like that though; this is just for the guilty ones lol. This is the typical Naija case scenario though not like in the Western World..

Peace

- Victor